Jesse thought that not planning it right away was kind of a good idea. That gave you time to be excited about the fact that you were going to get married without the threat of a deadline over your head. There was plenty of time to be miserable about that later. Hopefully Kate would be able to have whatever kind of wedding she wanted without stressing too much.

"Exactly. So much preparation for just a few hours that one ridiculous, rude or drunk guest could completely ruin. What's not to love about that prospect?"